OCT 9th Pause with the Pastor and Announcements

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Pause with the Pastor

 

Dear family and friends,
 
The Apostle Paul exhorts us in Colossians 3:13 to “forgive as the Lord forgave you.”

I heard Corrie ten Boom speak at Wheaton College, and what she shared was very impactful. She talked about being in a concentration camp in Germany with her sister Betsie, who was charged with hiding Jewish people who were being deported from Holland. Betsie died in that camp. 

Corrie shared that she was speaking about God's forgiveness at a church in Germany. After the service, a man approached her and extended his hand. She immediately recognized him as one of the most brutal guards at Ravensbrück, the Nazi concentration camp where she had suffered terribly and had watched her sister die.

The man explained that he had become a Christian and experienced God’s forgiveness. Now he was asking for hers. Corrie said she froze as memories of the cruelty, suffering, and humiliation flooded back. She had just spoken about forgiveness, yet she was being asked to forgive someone tied to the deepest wounds of her life.

She said everything inside her resisted.

She silently prayed, asking Jesus to help her do what she could not do on her own. Then she reached out and shook his hand, telling him she forgave him. Forgiveness often begins with obedience, long before our feelings are ready to follow.

Few things are easier to talk about and harder to practice than forgiveness. When someone betrays our trust, treats us unfairly, takes advantage of us financially, or deeply wounds us, something inside us wants justice or an apology. Maybe more than anything, we want the person to understand how badly they’ve hurt us. Sometimes we just want them to hurt as much as we have.

And when they never acknowledge their wrong, forgiveness becomes even harder. But forgiveness doesn’t mean pretending the offense never happened. It doesn’t mean excusing sinful behavior, eliminating consequences, or automatically restoring trust.

Forgiveness means surrendering our desire for personal revenge and entrusting justice to God.

Here’s what makes forgiveness especially challenging: God doesn’t tell us to forgive only when we feel like it. He commands us to forgive.Ephesians 4:32 says, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

Notice the motivation. We forgive because God has forgiven us. Consider the enormous debt of sin God has forgiven through Jesus Christ. We didn’t deserve His mercy, and we could never earn it. Yet because of His love and grace, He freely forgave us.

How can we receive such extraordinary forgiveness and refuse to extend forgiveness to others?

Is there someone in your life you’ve struggled to forgive? The hurt may still feel real. The memories may still be painful. And your emotions may be urging you to hold on to your resentment.

But you don’t have to wait until you feel forgiving to forgive.

Forgiveness is not primarily a feeling. It’s a decision to obey God.

Sometimes our emotions follow quickly. Sometimes healing takes much longer. But obedience can begin today. Who do you most need to forgive?

We don’t forgive because the offense didn’t matter or because the other person deserves it. We forgive because God has commanded us to forgive—and because He has so graciously forgiven us.


LETTER FROM JOHN KIRK, Head of our Overseer board:

Voting on the proposed amendments to the Clairemont Emmanuel Constitution and Bylaws will begin this Sunday. There will be a business meeting for members after the second service in Fellowship Hall to explain the voting process, which will include both email voting and in-person paper ballot voting. The Overseers will be available at the meeting for any individual questions regarding the proposed amendments. Voting will continue next Sunday, October 25. Please be sure to participate in this important process that will help to guide our church in the coming years.  

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ELOY GARCIA – Administrative pastor at Clairemont Emmanuel for nearly 40 years, our former youth pastor, and leader of our PrimeTimers—is in the presence of the Lord after a battle with Alzheimer’s. A service is planned for him on October 23 at 4PM, followed by a reception with light refreshments. Please pray for his wife, Becky, and all their other children and grandchildren, including daughter Jessica Mohr (currently part of our Clairemont Emmanuel staff) and her family. Cards are appreciated, but please don’t call. 


DICK CAPEN – Our brother and Clairemont Emmanuel member went to be with the Lord recently. He is rejoicing in the presence of His Savior. Please pray for his wife, Joan, and their children and grandchildren in this loss. Cards are appreciated, but please don’t call. A service for him will be held on November 7 at 11AM.  


CHURCH BUSINESS MEETING
All Clairemont Emmanuel members are welcome to a church business meeting on October 18th. This will be a formal opening of the vote on the proposed amendments to our church constitution. We will meet in Fellowship Hall at noon. At that time, each member will receive an email with the proposed amendments and a way to vote electronically. We will have technical support, as well as overseers for individual discussions. We will have other means of voting on October 25th, including by paper ballot. Thank you for prayerfully considering your vote.


DISCOVERING MY MINISTRY CLASS

Sunday, October 18, 2-5 PM in The Upper Room
Join Pastor Kenny to learn some basic skills you need for ministry including.  We’ll talk about spiritual gifts and look at the example of Paul and his ministries. Talk to Pastor Kenny if you have any questions.


OPERATION CHRISTMAS CHILD HAS ARRIVED AT CLAIREMONT EMMANUEL! 
The shoeboxes have arrived! 350 green and red Operation Christmas Child (OCC) shoeboxes are now available to Clairemont Emmanuel folks. OCC partners with local churches worldwide to provide shoeboxes filled with small toys, hygiene items, and school supplies to share the Good News of Jesus Christ with children. Shoeboxes will be available on the patio from today, October 18th, through November 8th. Please return all shoeboxes to the OCC table by Sunday, November 15th. Please consider being part of this ministry, which shows God’s love in a tangible way to children in need around the world. If you have any questions about the ministry or how you can participate, please contact Paul Champlin at 619-209-1237.


TRUNK OR TREAT
Community Life Ministries is hosting a Trunk or Treat event October 24th in the Clairemont Emmanuel upper parking lot. We are looking for 30 families or teams to decorate a car and host a spot handing out candy to our church and community kids. We invite our whole church to come out to the event. There will be food and activities for all ages. Sign-ups to host a car will be out on the patio on Sunday or you can sign up on the church website. You can also contact Pastor Aaron if you have any questions.


PRIMETIMERS FALL CELEBRATION ACTIVITIES!

Primetimers, please come to the table located on the patio to sign up for the various events that will be happening during November and December. On Friday, November 13th we will tour the Creation & Earth History Museum, on Wednesday, November 18th we will celebrate our annual Thanksgiving dinner, and on Wednesday, December 2nd we will attend the annual Lambs Players Festival of Christmas presentation. Come to table on Sunday to get details on each of these events. If you have any questions, please contact Paul Champlin at 619-209-1237. 


WHY VOTE? – Jeremiah 29:7 says, “Seek the peace and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile. Pray to the LORD for it, because if it prospers, you too will prosper.” As Christians, we should vote thoughtfully and prayerfully because God calls us to seek the good of our communities. Voting is a practical way to love our neighbors and help shape a society that values justice and righteousness. Every voting cycle, people ask whether there are online resources to help them decide whom to vote for. Here are some to consider: Family Voter Information, Local Ballot Measures, Statewide Propositions



BAPTISM AND MEMBERSHIP

 

John Edson
I was born with one arm and dyslexia, and my father died when I was four. Through my pain, I found peace, purpose, and meaning in my Savior, Jesus Christ. I know that Jesus paid the price for me on the cross, and that is the only way I can enter heaven. My favorite verse is Matthew 18:8: “If your hand or your foot causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter Life, maimed or crippled, than to have two hands or two feet and be thrown into eternal fire.” This verse speaks to me, born with one arm, and to the need for complete dependence on God.


Lauren Ezell
(will be baptized soon)
My son has been part of Young Life at Mission Bay High School. He invited me to church and has shown me the love of Christ. I know the only reason I can go to heaven is that God loves me and gave his life for me. My favorite verses are Luke 5:20 and Luke 7:48, where Jesus says to the woman who anointed his feet and to the paralyzed man, “Friend, your sins are forgiven.”


Kern Ezell
(will be baptized soon)
The first time I was exposed to the gospel was through Young Life at Mission Bay High School. From there, I met many people who have helped me grow, including Manuel, who has walked with me, and Ray Menegus, who can answer any question I’ve had. I know that Jesus died for my sins, and his death on the cross is the only reason I can enter heaven. My favorite verse is John 3:16. It may be a common answer, but it was the first verse I memorized and has helped me through many hard times: “God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” 


Manuel Flores
(will be baptized soon)
My family was Roman Catholic when I was growing up. It was more tradition than actual faith or belief. I started coming to faith during my sophomore year of high school through Young Life at Mission Bay High School. The only way I can get into heaven is through faith in Christ and what he accomplished for me on the cross. My favorite verse is John 14:6, where Jesus said, “I am the way and the truth and the life, and no one comes to the Father except through me.” I love this verse because it shows that Christ is the truth, the only truth, and the only way to have a relationship with God.


 

Tim Flannery
I grew up in the Roman Catholic Church, but I always rejected idolatry and dead rituals. In high school, a friend dragged me to a Bible study, where I recognized God and Christ as the truth and have followed them ever since. I know that all my good deeds cannot make up for even one of my sins, so I appeal to Christ's sacrifice, which washes me clean and is the only way I will ever get into heaven. I am only worthy because of him. My favorite verse is Malachi 6:8: “He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.” I love this verse for its peaceful, simple clarity and its clear guidance on how to live and make choices.


 

Nancy Monroy
My mother explained the gospel to me when I was eight, and by God’s leading, I realized I needed a Savior and confessed Christ as my Savior and Lord. I know the only reason I will enter Heaven is that Christ died for me on the cross for my sins. I trust Him for forgiveness, and God sees me as righteous because of that. My favorite verse is Romans 5:8, “But God demonstrates his own love toward us in the while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” I cannot be good enough on my own to be saved.


 

Greyson Reynolds
(will be baptized soon)
I grew up in the church and have always attended church and followed Christ. This relationship has grown stronger year after year. I believe God sent his son to pay for my sin with his blood, and I have unwavering faith in him and in what he did on my behalf. My favorite verse is John 15:13, “greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” I know Jesus laid down his life for me.


 

Julia Reynolds
I was raised as a Christian in school and church. Once I became an adult, I stayed in my faith—I think that after college I was able to strengthen it by seeking out a church on my own. I know that I am imperfect, a sinner, and that nothing I have done could be enough to earn my way into heaven. Going to heaven is priceless, but I know that my debt has been paid by Christ. I love Psalm 40:8, which expresses exactly what my heart feels, that his word is written in my heart: “I desire to do your will, my God; your law is within my heart.” 


 

Kaden Ryan
At around age six, I heard the gospel at my home church. I understood that I had to either spend my life with God and receive salvation through Jesus or spend it apart from God in eternity. I put my faith in Christ, and I’ve been living and growing in him ever since. I know I will go to heaven because Christ died and rose for me. I’m clinging to him by faith, knowing only he can save me. My favorite verse is John 15:4–5, “Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me, you can do nothing.” I completely understand that apart from Christ, I can do nothing.


 

Isaac Siebelink
I grew up in a Christian household, committed my life to Jesus at an early age, and continue to grow in my love for him. I believe Christ is the gate through which I will enter heaven, and that he welcomes me just as I welcome him into my heart. I love Micah 6:8: “To do justice, to love mercy, and to walk humbly before your God.” 



Ruth Bigley

I became a Christian as a result of a Bible study at our senior class trip in high school. That’s where the seed was planted. I began attending Bible studies with my high school friends and began reading the gospel of Matthew. It was a while reading the gospel that I saw my need to accept Christ as my personal Savior and came to faith in Christ. If I were to show up at heaven’s gate, and God asked me why He should let me in, I would say it is because of Christ’s righteousness and His blood covenant with me – not my merit. My favorite versus Hebrews 13:5, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”



Brady Buser
I was saved at a young age, and don’t remember the exact day that I understood and accepted Christ as my Savior, but I do remember learning to grow to love my Heavenly Father as I grew up. Because I understood His love for me, that He would go to the Cross to pay my eternal debt that I could not pay, that I would be welcomed into His family. If the Lord asked me why He should let me into heaven, my reply would be that there is nothing that I have done that is worthy of eternal life with Him, except for what I have been given by His Son’s death for Me.
My favorite verses is James 1:5. “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” I appreciate the fact that my Heavenly Father is one who does not withhold good things from His children, but also, that what the Lord is generously giving us His wisdom to grow in love and affection for Him!


Christopher Deal
I was raised in the New Apostolic Church, and attendance was compulsory. I didn’t know why I believed in Jesus, nor could I defend my faith. As I got older and could make my own decisions, I didn’t attend church. There were times I could feel Christ calling me to Him. In 2010 I was living in sin and got my girlfriend pregnant. Knowing it was wrong, I still encouraged her to have an abortion. I moved to San Diego a year or so later and visited the Rock Church; it was Mother’s Day. Pastor Miles said he wanted to pray and wish Happy Mother’s Day to all the mothers there and even for those who’ve had an abortion because they are mothers as well; and they will see their child in heaven. God used that to convict me and at that moment I dedicated my life to Christ and was saved.  My favorite verses are Ephesians 1:3-14. These verses reinforce the fact that I am not in control. I am confident I will go to heaven not because of anything I have done but because Jesus did everything for me.


Gail Frick
I grew up in a Christian home, where I was taught about God’s love, salvation, and the importance of prayer. Faith has been a process rather than an aha moment, and each blessing and crisis has strengthened my faith, trust and reliance on the Lord. At heaven’s gate, I would say that I am here, not by my own doing, but by God’s grace. By grace through faith, Jesus saved me. My favorite verse is Psalm 91, “The Lord is my refuge and fortress.” I proclaim his name, and because I love Him he will protect and rescue me.


Brad Hurlbut
I was raised in a lukewarm church, and did not have assurance of my salvation. The teacher led me to the Lord by sharing John 3:3 explaining that I needed to be born again. Christ would let me into heaven, because I love him as my Lord and Savior he paid the price I could never print, pay.  My favorite, but I have lots of them, is Ephesians 2:8, 9, “For it is by grace you’ve been saved through faith, and this is not of yourselves; it is the gift of God not by works so that no one can boast.”


Gina Hurlbut
I became a Christian in the fall of my sophomore year at University in 1978. I was not raised in a Christian home, although we would only go to church at Easter and Christmas. I believed in Jesus as a historical figure. In college, I was presented the truth of Jesus, being my savior by a young woman with Campus Crusade for Christ. When I die, I know I will go straight to be in the presence of my Lord, not because of anything, I have done, but because of the substitutionary death of Jesus for my sins. My favorite verse is Proverbs 14:26 “She who fears the Lord has a secure fortress for her children. It will be a refuge.”

Lara LeCompte


Nate LeCompte


Suzanne Sroka

 


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HOLY LAND TRIP?  Given the current situation, any trip would be in a couple years from now, or later, but not earlier. In the past, former member, Eric Johnson has organized trips “In the Footsteps of the Apostle Paul” (to Turkey, Greece and Rome), to Israel, and a “Protestant Historical Tour of Germany and either England or Scotland.” Take the survey only if you’re interested in one or more of these trips. The survey link is found at: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/PS2RBZX. The survey is ten questions long and the only one you have to answer is the first—your name. If you have any questions, contact Pastor Kenny.

CLAIREMONT EMMANUEL VETERANS GROUP – If you are you a vet of any branch of military service, contact Timothy Hulbert at timothy_hulbert@yahoo.com, or 858-754-7946 to find out more. We would love for you to join us.

INTERESTED IN JOINING A SMALL GROUP? – Would you like to start or join a small group? Participants decide the frequency and scope of their gatherings. Small groups meet together for fellowship, prayer, and Bible study. These groups are an integral part of our church community. Most meet regularly in the home of a group member. It may include dinner from time-to-time. If you haven’t found a group in your area, please let us know! Call or text Pastor Aaron if you’re interested. (If you’re interested in a women’s group, contact Lois Taylor at the church office.)

PRAYER TENT – Community outreach prayer tent opportunity. For the past months on Monday evenings from 6-8PM in the middle parking lot, you may have seen a blue easy-up with “Need prayer?” sign and a couple of Clairemont Emmanuel people there to pray, talk to people, and hand out Bibles and other information. If you’re interested in finding out more, stop by on a Monday evening or call/text Dan Cassels at 619-972-5976.

CARE FOR CLAIREMONT – Is a group of guys willing to help do some safe, light, ‘muscle jobs’ for seniors that could take around an hour or so to do.  If you are in need of some help around your home, contact Pastor Kenny. 

SEE SOMEONE YOU DON’T RECOGNIZE AT CHURCH? – Please don’t assume that someone else will greet them.  Will YOU go up and introduce yourself to them and welcome them this Sunday to Clairemont Emmanuel!

AFTER-SERVICE PRAYER – We will continue to invite people to come forward for prayer at the end of the service. Please know that this is an invitation for you to come forward and pray about anything that God has put on your heart. Of course to know the Lord, or to make spiritual decisions, but also to pray for anything personal you’d like prayer for. You might have a special prayer request for family, friends, work, etc. Maybe it’s on your heart to come and pray for our pastors, missionaries, staff, youth, children, or one of our other ministries, etc. Our team is available to pray with you about anything God puts on your heart. Please come and join us. 

PRAY FOR OUR SERVICE MEMBERS DEPLOYED or ON ASSIGNMENT – We have several of our young men who are currently deployed.  PLEASE PRAY especially for Bryant, Kerry, Ty, Mike and Cole, Ryan. (For security we’re just going with first names.) Please text Pastor Kenny and let him know of any other members or regular attenders who are deployed or away temporarily and please pray for them.

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2026 Class Schedule

·      All classes are held in The Upper Room from 2-5PM

·      Text Pastor Kenny (619-508-3785) if you’re interested in reserving a spot for any of these classes.

·      Our goal is that every member takes each one of the classes. 

  • Oct 11 Ministry

  • Nov 8 Membership

  • Jan 10 Evangelism

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MINISTRY OPPORTUNITIES

YOUNGLIVES VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES

 

The Children’s ministry is making Blessing Bags for the We See You, San Diego, homeless guests for their Thanksgiving meal. Here is our Amazon wish list. 

 

YoungLives is having a Friendsgiving and needs some decorations and ministry support for leader care: You can find the Amazon list here. Thank you as always for your support!

 

Handmade Christmas Gifts with Santa – Center Church is hosting our 4th annual event. We need volunteers from 12-5pm on Sat Dec 12th. Please reach out to Jeanie Presley if interested.

 

Olive Crest Meal Train – Meal (for 12) for Teen Drop-in Shelter - Can you consider making a meal once a month for their shelter? They now have afternoon and evening drop-offs available for selection: Click Here

 

YoungLives – Additional support for this fun ministry: #1. First Thursday at Friendship Church in Logan Heights or Third Friday at Catalyst Church in Paradise Hills, always 6:30-8:30PM. We need childcare volunteers once a month. Would you please consider helping out? You can serve as a family. #2. Anyone or a couple want to be our set-up/tear-down support for Club? Third Thursday at Catalyst Church in Paradise Hills. Set up tables and chairs 5:30-6:30, go have dinner somewhere, and return to clean up and put the tables and chairs away. 

INTERESTED IN SERVING IN KIDS MINISTRY? – We have many opportunities to join on Wednesday nights and Sunday mornings. We’d love to have you join us in our partnership with parents to disciple this next generation! Get involved by contacting Susan Robinson at 619-985-5188 or at SusanAnnRobinson@gmail.com. 

SOUND BOOTH – Those who control the video, sound, and lights, are looking for more volunteers for Sunday mornings. If you have any technical skills or desire to learn, talk to Pastor Zach or Stephen Carpenter in the sound booth and let them know you’d like to join the team.

WELCOME TABLE VOLUNTEERS – Have a heart to welcome our church on Sunday mornings? We invite you to serve here! The welcome table is a place to welcome all guests, to be a warm space for newcomers (and the regulars) to be seen and known, to connect them with our community, get their questions answered, to share about our church history and culture, and to get resources. Please contact Sunshine McCroskey for more details at speechsunshine@gmail.com. (Church membership required.)

AV MINISTRY – Men and women! If you are looking for a ministry (especially if you have a background in technology / sound, but even if you don’t), contact Pastor Zach (858-322-2105), or one of the guys in the sound booth and let them know you’d like to join the team.

SPECIAL NEEDS MINISTRY – Children’s Ministry is exploring the idea of starting a Special Needs Team to better support individuals and families in our church community who have children with special needs. No experience is necessary—we’re simply looking to see who might be interested in learning more. This is not a commitment, just a chance to express curiosity or willingness to be involved in the future. If you’d like to be part of the conversation, please contact Nikki Uyboco at nikknacks1@gmail.com.

GREETING AND USHERING – If you are interested in greeting and ushering, talk to Joe Dameron on Sunday morning or to Timothy Hulbert (first service) or Justin Hoech (second service).

COMMUNITY CARE – Community Care ministry would like to love on our Clairemont Emmanuel members in times of need (surgery, illness, cancer treatments, death of loved one) as well as celebrations of life (wedding, birth, new home, etc.). If you know of a member that deserves some love please submit a prayer card addressed to Community Care with member name and address and reason for care and our team will make sure a card will be sent to them.

MINISTRY TABLES – If you are a leader of one of our many ministries and would like a table on the patio, contact the office (619-276-1922) to schedule a Sunday! Plan to be at your table after both services.

SMALL GROUP LEADERS – If you’re interested in the possibility of leading an adult small group, contact Pastor Aaron. 

FIRST SERVICE GREETERS – Are you interested in greeting people as they come to church? We’re looking for a few friendly people to join our team. Reach out to Joe Dameron at 858-603-8462 or stop by the table of the patio today.

COMMUNITY CARE MINISTRY • ADOPT A MOM – We are seeking an individual or family to “adopt” a young mom and child from YoungLives for a one-year commitment. This involves weekly call/text, visitation twice a month and cards/gifts on special occasions like birthdays. We “adopted” Marianna and Romeo last year and they are now exceeding our expectations as far as growth and progress. We as a church want to replicate this with another family. For more information contact Jeanie Presley at jeanie.presley@gmail.com or 619-997-2079.


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